in addition ,there are few rewards for listening ,but there are punishments for not listening.how do you feel when listeners are not paying attention to you by looking at their watches , doing some activity or not acknowledging what you've said?you probably felt put down or ,even worse you felt like you were talking to a wall .listeners have a lot more power and impact on the talker than most people realize.



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此外,倾听并不会给你带来多少回报,可是不善于倾听有时会给自己带来惩罚.当你很用心的说话而对方却心不在焉地看表,做别的事或者根本不知道你在说什么时,你会有什么样的感受?也许你会有种深深失望,沮丧的感觉,你会觉得你在对着一堵墙说话.善于倾听的人有股无形的力量在影响着对方,这是很多已经有这种意识的人所无法想象的.