我叫JOHN，我的朋友李华给我写了一份信·说他有早恋倾向·我要告诉她早恋的危害有哪些··还要告诉他有正确的态度和解决问题的方法

Dear Li hua;
First I'll say thank you very much for your believing in me. You said that you've fallen in love as so young a boy and would like me to give you some advice on how to deal with it. In my opinion, it is not good at all for a student fall in love at an early age. As we all know, we are studying many subjects now and we need a lot of energy to do them well. If we take some notice of the lovers, we can't put all our heart into our studies and we'll fall behind others, which will make us fail in the future. Besides, we have to spend more settling the relations between ourselves, our parents and our classmates. And also where we will go and what we will do later are still not clear. So most of us won't get successfull in marriage. The best way I think to do with it is to turn our attention to some meaningful things, such as taking some exercise, doing some reading, listening to some music and even chatting to our friends and parents. Hope this will give you some help.
Best wishes to you!

Ever yours,
John.