you must arrange for the other parent to receive a complete copy of the paperwork. This is called "service of process" In most cases, personal service is required, which means you must have someone hand deliver a copy to the other party. A PARTY TO AN ACTION IS NOT ALLOWED TO SERVE THE OTHER PARTY. you must have someone else who is 18 years of age or older serve the other parent. The Family Law Facilitator will explain how to complete proper service in your case when you have your forms screened.

"service of process" 是一法律用语，可译成“诉讼文件的送达”，指的是将法律文件送达某一方（如被告）的过程。译文：

您必须安排让对方父母收到文件的完整副本。这称之为“诉讼文件的送达”。在大多数情况下，个别服务是需要的，也就是你必须派人亲手将一份副本送达对方。起诉方是不允许亲自送文件给另一方的。你必须让另外一个18岁或18岁以上的人送给另一方的父母。在你提交诉讼表格后，家庭法辅导员会解释在你这种情况下如何完成整个过程。