BY being honest with yourself when dating and honest with those you date. Lastly you need to be confident in yourself to the point where when the dating scene is slow you are content with just being you. Keep with your close friends, understand that dating to you is just going to be mostly making new ones and know where to draw the line.. dont miss lead others and therefore break hearts. Besides.... you will end up meeting someone that you are NOT going to want to just let go one of these days and you will see... you wont have a choice. Your mind is going to say one thing and heart just isnt going to agree. But thats the chance you take.
If you mean totally single..... get yourself involved in a cause or something that you truly feel is larger than yourself. By working on stuff like that you get a sense of accomplishment... which truly it is.

在约会的时候，对你自己和你约会的人都要诚实．最后，即使进展比较慢你也要自信，你只要做你自己．不要忘了你的好朋友们，知道约会有时只是交新的朋友，学会不超越界限，不要误导别人伤他人的心．还有，你可能会碰到你不愿意就此结束的人，你的大脑告诉你这样做可你的心却不是，但是你没选择，这是你必须冒的险．

如果你想单身，那你就要做一件会使你感到伟大的事业，努力工作使你有成就感，也确实是这样．